Bette Bressler Shaw


DELMAR, N.Y. Bette Bressler Shaw, 86, a resident of Delmar, passed away peacefully on December 28, 2010.

Bette was born in Schenectady, N.Y. to Riley and Emma Bressler. She graduated from Cambridge High School, Cambridge N.Y., in 1942 and went on to become a registered nurse at St. John's Episcopal Hospital in Brooklyn, N.Y.

Following her graduation in 1945, she worked at Ellis Hospital and Albany Medical Center Hospital. Bette was very active in the community, volunteering her time with the American Red Cross and the gift shop at Child's Hospital, where she also served as secretary of the board of directors and sat on the board of governors. Bette was publicly recognized for logging more than 16,000 hours of her time volunteering to help others.

Bette lived a life close to God and was an active member of St. Stephen's Episcopal Church in Delmar, where she taught Sunday school, served on the vestry, worked with the women's group, and sang in the choir.

Bette is survived by her husband of 59 years, Colonel Robert A. Shaw of Delmar, N.Y.; her four children, Deborah (Bill) Swietlik of Fairfax, Va., Susan Shaw (John Corbelli) of Honoeye Falls, N.Y., Linda Shaw (Rod Foster) of Port Jefferson Station, N.Y., and Donald Shaw (Susanne) of Scottsdale, Ariz.; her sister, Mary Lou Brown of Annapolis, Md.; four nieces; one nephew; and nine grandchildren.

 Her kind heart and willingness to always put others before herself made her a dear friend to many. Her unconditional love for her family will remain forever in their hearts. She will be deeply missed. A service in memory of Bette will be held at St. Stephen's Episcopal Church, 16 Elsmere Ave, Delmar, N.Y. on Wednesday, January 5, 2011 at 11:00 a.m. In honor of Bette, donations may be made to St. Stephen's Episcopal Church or a charity of your choice.

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